I bet you thought I wouldn't get a post up today! Well, it's still Friday, and here I am -- just squaking it in. Today was very dark -- I kept waiting for even a patch of sunshine to take some photos -- and by 3:00, when it looked like the sun had gone down and it started to pour freezing rain/hail/slush, I knew it was a lost cause. I had planned a review of a book with illustrations that warranted sharing, so instead I've had to come up with an alternate plan.
I actually meant to link to my three favorite books on seasonal observance/celebrations/festivals in my Martinmas post, so it's probably a good thing to just post about them here, since I think I've only mentioned them in passing before.
Mrs. Sharp's Traditions is my very, very favorite. It was the first non-pregnancy/birth/breastfeeding mama book I ever read --while I was pregnant with Elisabeth. The style is humorous and may be off-putting to some (it's written a tone mimicking a Victorian ladies' advice book or magazine), but that is really so perfect for me. The amazing, wise thing about this book is that it draws parallels from another time with our own time. It really is all about how to reclaim family life -- I think so many of us feel powerless and end up throwing our hands up in defeat. Mrs. Sharp is here to show you simple ways to make home a warm respite from the impersonal, face-paced world outside. The first part of the book is about daily rituals that help to bring harmony, balance, and predictability to family life. The rest of the book (the majority) follows the year month by month, discussing different festivals and seasonal customs and pastimes. Part historical, part practical, part humorous, but always full of grace and charm. In my early days of parenting, Mrs. Sharp was like a trusted friend, always giving me a bit of steadying wisdom as I navigated my new role as a full-time, at-home mama and keeper of the home.
Festivals, Family, and Food is a lovely book on the seasons and festivals of the year. It contains stories, songs, poems, recipes, and anecdotes about celebrations throughout the year. It also has an appendix about everyday rituals. I can't tell you how many of our family's little customs and rituals originated in this book. I got it so long ago (in Elisabeth's first year), and began adapting pieces of it into our family's life that I sometimes don't even remember that it was the origin for much of what we do. So many of the little songs and poems that accompany our days and our year are found here, and I sometime surprise myself, after tearing through stacks of other books trying to find a resource for one of them, that it was here all along. It's not illustrated, it looks rather bland at first glance. But the information and suggestions are dense. It is completely possible, even for a family who has been using this resource for a long time, to find something new in it, something that is applicable now that wasn't before, a recipe that begs to be tried. As humble as it appears, it really contains a wealth of gifts for family life.
All Year Round is the most "Waldorf" of these three books. It gives a deeper, richer context and background for each of the festivals. It has a strongly anthroposophical flavor, although nothing extreme or into the esoteric. When I want a clear, concise description of a festival, its origin and history -- what it's "for" -- then I invariably turn to All Year Round. I like the format of the book, and it gives many, many ideas for crafts -- both for adults and children. The beginning of the book has several helpful question and answer sections about festivals, inner work, etc. I have read these dozens of times and they always help to reorient me about how and why we choose to celebrate festivals through the year.
One other helpful book, for poems, songs, and other ideas are A Child's Seasonal Treasury. I'm sorry to see that it's out of print and fairly hard to obtain, because it contains a wealth of great poems, verses, fingerplays, songs, and games, arranged by season. It has some sweet rhymes for counting and the letters of the alphabet, as well.
Some of you had asked for some more details about our family's celebration of Martinmas. I didn't elaborate on those answers for a couple of reasons -- one was that there wasn't too much I didn't share in my previous Martinmas posts, and the other was that most of them came from these three books. So, hopefully this will be helpful to those of you who are looking for additional information.
Have a great weekend, everyone -- I'll be here with some weekend posts at some point on Saturday and Sunday. See you then!







































































































